What a wonderful Term 2 we have had at the College! We hope you have had a chance to have a period of rest and refresh before the beginning of Term 3. During this time, I would like to reflect on the importance of building positive relationships between parents and children. This is especially timely as we head into the last few days of the school holidays.
Positive relationships between you and your child are built on quality time. Time together is how you get to know each other’s experiences, thoughts, feelings, and changing interests. This shows that you value and appreciate your child, which is great for your relationship.
Quality time can happen anytime and anywhere, in the middle of ordinary days and situations. It can be a laugh as you prepare lunch or a conversation in the car on the way to basketball with your teenage child. These moments give you the chance to communicate positive messages with smiles, laughter, eye contact, and hugs.
You can make the most of your time together by minimising disruptions and distractions. This can be as easy as putting away your phone or work. It helps your child know that you’re keen to spend uninterrupted time with them.
There might be times in your family life when it’s not possible to have a lot of time with your child every day. But planning some regular one-on-one time with your child can help you make the time count.
I look forward to seeing you at our upcoming Open Day on Wednesday 16 August where you can see first-hand the outstanding educational opportunities on offer at John Paul College.
Acknowledgment: The Australian Parenting Website. www.raisingchildren.net.au
